I am 21 years old and I live at my parents' house with my mom's mom, my mom, my dad, and my older sister(recent college grad lots of loans). My grandma has 3 bio children and 2 step kids but it had been all on my family i.e. my mom have been caring for her since my grandpa died 11 years ago. My grandma couldn't live on her own any more because she just couldn't handle a house by herself anymore but she gets sick and weak and needs physical therapy now almost every time she gets sick. I was volunteered for caring for her when she just moved in because I had serve anxiety and depression and didn't leave the house much because of a bullying incident that really mess with in 6th grade but I have been better now for three years and I am starting to dislike my family for sticking me with this. My dad is an alcoholic and well he loves grandma he spends many an hour at most a day with her but complains about it all the time and my mom and sister work full time. The worse thing is my grandma has become my best friend but I just want her to be in assisted living because I am her and she is my only social contact and I feel so guilty and like a failure for just wanting her to be gone. I haven't even had time to learn to drive, I get straight As in online collage and take care of a 2 year old at our house for 40 hours a week. It is just getting terrible for me and I hate my mom's siblings for not being here the worst thing is that she could have afforded assisted living but when she sold her house all of my aunts and uncles had her over for dinner without my mom and told her they should all split the money from the sale of the house right now instead of waiting till she passed away so she wrote out checks right then. I just need to talk to other people who get why I am so pissed off right now.