My husband had cancer. That was a battle for us!!! Now as a result of the cancer he has a feeding tube. I am losing my mind.He is depressed and complains all the time. The Dr. said the tube was temporary but my husband does not believe that. He does nightly feedings and cannot eat alot. He is uncomfortble. He complains and has anxiety. He is not the man I married. Of course, it is difficult and unpleasant. I feel for him. But I get no respite. He complains every day. There is no escape except brief visits with company. Please help.