My father in law had been living with us for over 3years due to the fact he could no longer stay alone with his health and horrible drinking problem. I really felt that moving him with us would help but I feel like he thinks of me as his dead mother our dead wife. I realize he's sick and am trying to do everything I can but nothing is good enough. My husband and I aren't even intimate anymore. My father I law demands all the attention and when he doesn't get it he makes himself sick enough to go back to the hospital. I can't find any support groups or I would be there. He feels like I owe him thi