I'm a newlywed. In addition to some health issues (hemophilia and a heart condition he has had since birth), he's been battling depression and anxiety pretty intensely the past year or so. We have wonderful days and we have atrocious days - days where he struggles to get out of bed, will start sobbing and see he wants to leave because he doesn't think he deserves someone that will be by his side and help him handle this. I don't know how to deescalate these situations when they happen and am afraid I am causing more harm than good. I just don't know what to do.