Hi all, my life changed drastically this year and I am struggling to make decisions and provide support at the same time. In January of this year I was at home in FL with my hubby of 42 years. I heard from my sister in NY. My dad was going to the hospital with very bad back pain. My sister was over her head trying to manage her disabled husband and being in chronic kidney failure. So I came to NY to help. Within 2 weeks, my dad went into a rehab, very weak, and my sister went into the hospital. She passed away within 48 hours. I'm sorry for the dump here.