Hello: Today is my birthday and it is still about my mother. I am a woman in my fiftiies entering entrepreneurship. The corporate structure was no longer condusive to the increase demand in caring for Mom. Mom has been with me close to 20 years and it is not easy one bit. There has been several medical mishaps that has caused mistrust. Therefore, Mom doesn't trust them but needs them for her survival. Mom still lucid and afvicayes for herself. When it comes to me, it is not nice at all. You would think I am a complete moran. It is only the two of us and the lack of a relationship is quite puzzling to say the least. Long story short, we need to live independently. She was sent to rehaps after a couple of hospitalizations and of course there were issues. Plus the people she knows have moved to these places long term, have died. She needs structure - a schedule to regain her strength. Plus get the items that would improve her quality of life. But she refuses. I am at my wits end!!! Phew, that was an intro...