My partner just received an additional diagnosis on top of many existing. I'm feeling like I can't handle one more thing. She mostly only leaves home for appointments and as a result is bored & lonely. She lists hobbies she'd like to start and I provide them but then they just sit. Her substance use is increasing and is taking quite a chunk of her monthly income. I'm providing most of our needs, doing all the errands, the only driver. I don't feel like I can tell her what's on my mind because she has such poor self esteem & is so down on herself. I'm also a FT professional health care worker & an only child of parents who need a lot of help right now. I'm not living my values of helping them the way I want to because there isn't enough of me to go around. I'm starting a new job and haven't had the energy to complete the new hire packet. I have multiple mental health diagnoses that make this harder: depression, anxiety, ADD. I have the treatment I need for that & see my providers regularly. But I'm not eating right/exercising because I don't have the energy & I use food for coping.